Friday, January 16, 2015

My week

I haven't felt like writing this week and this morning I finally figured out why.

pregnancy + training for a half marathon + insomnia + ongoing food issues = a tired, fuzzy-headed, non-motivated mommy

I've been trying to catch up on my sleep, but keep getting hit by insomnia, which does not improve matters at all.

The nausea is gone, but my appetite still isn't great, so I've been resorting to making quick and easy foods that have corn and potatoes in them for the kiddos. Unfortunately, I'm not reacting very well to all those starches, hence the fuzzy head. Plus, the corn makes me bloated :( Not a good look, trust me.

Despite all that, I did manage to finally make some progress on a couple projects. I'm not quite finished with them, though one just needs a few finishing touches and I should be able to finish it tomorrow. The other two may also get finished, though probably not since I also have some Pinewood Derby trophies to make tomorrow. And that will all have to wait until after I do my 6-mile long run for the week.

In the meantime, here's a couple sneak peaks of what I've been working on. Can you see the progress I've made?

More pictures next week!

Monday, January 12, 2015

A 5 Mile Treadmill Run

is not what I had planned for Saturday morning, but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.

Saturday was cold (hovering around freezing) and I had a massive headache, but I skipped my long run last week because of other obligations last Saturday, so despite the issues, I had to get a long run in on Saturday.

I decided to suck it up and hit the treadmill for a couple hours. That would be better than possibly getting stuck a couple miles from home while feeling crappy.

I lowered the incline on the treadmill as much as possible and just kept a slow, easy pace and it actually wasn't as bad as I'd thought it would be.

A bonus to running inside: convenient potty breaks since the basement bathroom is 12 steps from the treadmill.

The miles went quicker than I thought- it only took me 90 min to run and walk 5.2 miles.

I walked 15 min, ran 30 min (with a quick potty break in the middle), walked 5 min, ran 30 min, and walked 10 min, for a total of 60 min running, 30 walking.

It was a bit more walking than I'd like, but I got a slow start (I was distracted by a "quick" google search I started when I got on the treadmill and lost track of time), and then realized at the end I was too close to the 5 mile mark to run anymore. I didn't want to go over the 5 mile mark since my previous longest run was 4.2 miles. At this point I'm including my warmup and cool down walking in my mileage (though I don't when I'm outside, so I need to be more consistent when I'm inside).

The big issue I think I have with running on the treadmill is the clock staring at me. I don't stare at my Garmin while I run outside, but it's hard to avoid it on the treadmill. A watched clock barely moves.

Saturday I set my laptop in front of the display and tried to glance at it as little as possible. Of course, the clock on my laptop was still visible, but those numbers aren't bright red and are a lot smaller, so they're easier to ignore. Watching tv shows while running also helped keep my brain from dwelling on that annoying clock.

The slow and steady pace at a level incline also made the whole thing much more doable than it's been in the past when I've tried to run at steeper inclines and faster speeds. For a long run, slow, steady, and flat is the next best thing to actually being outside.

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This past week I switched up my training schedule a bit. I had been running on Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday and walking Monday, Wednesday and Friday. However, Tuesday and Thursday are my busy days and trying to squeeze a run in and still have energy in the evening just wasn't working out well.

So last week I ran Monday, Wednesday, and Saturday, and walked Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday. It worked out much better with my schedule, so I'll keep it up. I try to have one run day focus on hills, one on speed work, and one on distance. I may be doing a lot of running inside, but I still have outdoor races to prepare for and none of them are flat. Even the supposedly flat New Year's Day 5k wasn't actually that flat: it just had rolling hills instead of steep hills.

I've decided to start recording my weekly mileage to make sure I'm getting enough miles in before the half marathon. I've been recording my daily mileage for months now, but I haven't been adding up my weekly mileage. I went back and did that for the last couple months, and it was quite informative about my training habits.

I usually under train for half marathons, but I have to be a lot more careful this time around since I'm pregnant and don't want to put undue stress on my body and/or the baby. So last week's mileage: 16.65 miles.

Thursday, January 8, 2015

Fall Irish Music School Recital

final rehearsal for the song her class sang, Sunshine is the short one wearing a hat

Sunshine's recital was almost a month ago, but with the holidays and everything, I never wrote about it or even edited the pictures.

I could have played in the recital, but everyone in my class (myself included) decided that wasn't necessary, so we didn't participate :)

Sunshine standing a little stiffly in her dance outfit

Sunshine danced, sang, and played her fiddle. I brought our fancy camera, but forgot to check the battery, which was only partially charged. And I was caught unawares when Sunshine's dance class went first and I couldn't remember how to do video. So I have some still photos of her dancing, but no video. I got the video figured out after that, so I have video of the rest of her performances, but no photos. Mr M was on River-duty and wasn't able to take photos. Ah well. We have a couple pictures to share at least.

There were only two girls in her class this time. Sunshine's on the left and their teacher is in front of them, giving cues as needed. The adult musicians provide live music for all the dance performances.


River and this little red-haired girl were so cute together. Her older sisters were in Sunshine's Tuesday  class and also attended day camp with Sunshine. Two summers ago their mom was pregnant at the same time I was, and the little girl was actually born the day after River. At the recital River and the little girl were looking at each other and poking at each other and being cute and distracting. When they were at the front up by the stage everyone was watching them instead of the performers. Oops :)

Wednesday, January 7, 2015

Adoption Update

Christmas morning. River wasn't thrilled with the picture taking so this is as good as it got. 
At least Sunshine is happy :)

I haven't mentioned adoption for awhile now because a lot has changed and we've had a lot to think about and consider. First, our adoption plans were put on hold when we got pregnant with River. Then about 6 months later we received notification that our agency is no longer doing home studies. They'll work with us through the rest of the process (web site with our info, birth parent counseling, etc), but we have to choose someone else to do our home study and coordinate the adoption.

This means our costs would be at least doubled and we would have to redo our paperwork, since our original home study has expired.

When we realized this, it raised a lot of questions. We initially decided to hold off on any decisions since we were already "on hold" until River turned a year old. Of course, we still considered our options while we waited.

Some of my thought processes over the last 10 months or so: 
My original thought when I got pregnant with River was that it would make it possible for me to nurse the adopted baby, as long as we were able to adopt before he stopped nursing.

I have a really hard time believing that paperwork for the adoption process costs as much as agencies try to make us believe.

We don't have that kind of money sitting around, which makes it a lot less likely that we would go through with a domestic infant adoption.

{pre-current-pregnancy thought} Do we still want to adopt? We don't know. I was finally ok with just having two kids. It took me years, time in therapy, and the birth of River to get to that point, though.

{pre-current-pregnancy thought} On the one hand, I felt for some time that I might have a second pregnancy in me, but never felt strongly about a third. So if I don't get pregnant again, are we still supposed to adopt, or was it a place holder to keep me sane while waiting for River to join our family? Either way, planning on adopting did help me stay in a better place than I otherwise would have been.

{pre-current-pregnancy thought} I do feel like there's a girl out there waiting for us, but while I was able to get pregnant with River, I don't have a strong feeling that I'll get pregnant again- before him I felt like there might be one more pregnancy.  This girl has a specific name, which wasn't the case with Sunshine or River- we weren't completely sure about River's name even after we came home.  {Now that I'm pregnant: I'm really curious to see if this baby is a girl. If it's not, that raises a whole slew of other questions.}

{pre-current-pregnancy thought} Pregnancy and L&D weren't great with Sunshine, but they were a much better experience with River. Was this to leave me with a better memory/impression/feeling because I'm done, or because there's another kiddo waiting to be born to us and I need to not be put off by the bad experience I had with Sunshine?

Present-day thoughts:
And now that I'm pregnant again, it raises more questions. If our original agency still facilitated adoptions, we would no longer be able to work with them anyway, since once you have three kiddos you're no longer eligible to adopt through them. This allows other families with fewer (or no) children to benefit from their services as well. We had originally thought we'd take the hold off our profile when River turned 1 year old. When we prayed about which agency to go with, we felt best about the one we chose. This makes me think that that decision was to help me cope while we waited for River to join our family.

The prospect of two under two is a bit daunting, especially since it's taken so long to get to that point. It's not like we're young newlyweds popping out the kiddos. This baby will be born just before our 14th wedding anniversary. While I'm looking forward to it, I know it will be a lot of work.

Acknowledging that makes it easier to make an interim decision about adoption and our family. We don't have the money to pursue a domestic infant adoption (our original first choice) and having two littles already drastically reduces our desire to pursue infant adoption.

We could pursue an international adoption (which was never on our preferred list), but they are also very expensive and the adjustment period can be hard on everyone. That's a bit more than I think I can handle with two little ones. Not to mention an extended stay in a foreign country that may or may not be celiac friendly while we wait for paperwork and red tape to be resolved.

We could look into adoption through foster care, which would require little to no expense on our part (and may even pay us money), but the children in foster care are there because their home life was too chaotic or unsafe for them to remain there. As a result, they usually have at least some emotional/physical/mental issues that I'm not sure I'm ready to deal with at this point in my life. Especially since we never know when Mr M may be deployed again, leaving me to deal with all the issues, and how they affect the other children, all by myself.

So what did we decide?
We'll hold off for now. When River and the baby are older (probably Sunshine's age or older) we will most likely look into fost-adopt. We feel like the kiddos need to be old enough to understand why their new sibling is having a hard time adjusting or dealing with life, and our children won't be that old for awhile. And being realistic, I know my limitations and it would be difficult for me to deal with a tween, two littles, and a foster child and still take care of my other responsibilities and commitments.

Our adoption plans really did keep me sane and help me cope with life in the years of dealing with infertility and miscarriages and I'm grateful for that. Our plans may not be turning out how we thought they would, but that's ok. It just means we make new plans and see if those turn out like we think they will. The need for foster parents is definitely a real one, so I can see us keeping that in the back of our minds while the kidlets grow and starting the process when we all feel we're ready.

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

My 2015 Goals


I haven't talked a ton about my goals during this past year, but I have been working on them. My word for the year was Balance, and I had goals focused in the following aspects of my life: Running,
Food, Finances, and Time Management.

This year I'm keeping Balance as my word and continuing to work on my goals from last year, either continuing what I didn't finish or expanding on what I started.

Running

My primary goal (and the one that I talked about the most this past year) was my running. I talked a little bit about my success in my December 5k Recap post, but here's a table with what I accomplished this year. Even though I didn't run a race in January, I ran races every other month and even managed to run two in a month on three occasions. In addition, my training is getting more consistent. I ended up running 14 races in 2014. Yay me!

Planned Races
Actual Races
January-      New Year's Day 5k
January:                              ---
February 4.5 miles Mud Run:  1:49:55        
March-        a 5k
March 5k:                               37:33  
April-          an 8k
April 5k Color Run:                37:40         
May-           a 5k
May 5k:                                  39:23          
June-           a 5k
June 5k:                                  38:11         
July-            a 10k
4th of July 5k:                        34:15

2nd July 5k:                           35:27
August-       4 miler
August 2 mile Mud run with Sunshine: ~40 min?      

August 8.5 miles 15k Trail Run:            2:06:58         
September half: Great Smoky Mtns Half  2:51:01   
October-      Halloween 5k
October 5k Trail:                  38:05       

Halloween 5k:                        35:26
November-  Turkey Trot 5k
Turkey Trot 5k:                     34:22         
December-   a 5k
December 5k:                          33:25          

Races I have planned for this year:
January- New Year's Day 5k
February- 8 mile run  {{new}}
April- half marathon  {{new}}
May- 5k {{new}}
--->  have a baby! <---
August- 4 mile fun run {walk}  {{new}}
September- 5k {{new}}

How I feel after the baby's born will dictate whether I add extra races in the last half of the year. I struggled with my energy levels after River was born, so I will be playing it by ear.

My big goal with running is starting my 40 by 40 goal. I turn 38 at the end of June, so the 4th of July 5k that I am planning on walking while 38 weeks pregnant will officially kick off the start of that particular goal. I'll have two years to complete 40 races of as many different types as I can manage.

Food

I've mentioned it several times throughout the year, but I definitely struggled with food this year. There's still a lot of foods that don't agree with me, which limits what I can eat and makes it hard to be properly fueled for exercise, nursing, and life. We did start GAPS after Halloween, but we weren't able to stick with it very long. My first trimester nausea makes it impossible to eat anything that smells at all and tends to take away my appetite as well.

We've been pretty good about eating a real food diet this year, and I've even got Mr M mostly on board with it.  We do still eat some processed foods, but we try to keep it to a minimum. Not purchasing processed foods really makes a difference in the budget- they're quite expensive.

Meal planning and menus help a lot with both our food budget and eating right. We've slacked off a bit on the meal planning lately, but we've also been mostly using what we have in the freezer and cupboards. I should be able to start cooking again soon (Mr M has had to take over that duty the last couple months) and when I do I'll be better able to plan out what we eat. It's very difficult to plan a menu right now when literally nothing sounds good. If Mr M makes dinner and puts it in front of me I can eat at least some of it, but don't ask me to plan or help make it :)

Tied into my running and food goals is the goal to stay active and healthy throughout this pregnancy so it can be as good, or even better, an experience as River's pregnancy.

Finances

We were on track to have our debts paid off by the end of the year, and then life happened. Life in the form of Mr M getting laid off back in September. We'd sold the trailer at the end of August and used part of the proceeds to pay off the truck, which would make it easier to sell. The rest of the money went into savings. When we sold the truck we were going to buy a cheaper, more fuel-efficient car and put the rest into savings. The leftover money from the trailer and truck were going to pay off the credit cards and the remainder of my student loan. Instead, that money went to pay the bills in the absence of a steady paycheck.

Not what we had intended to happen, but at least we had that money available when we needed it. Mr M is still looking for a job, but we have high hopes he'll start working soon. Once that happens we'll get back on track and get our debts paid off. I won't put a timeline on it at this point, but it will be as quick as we can manage.

We've tightened up our budget and I've gotten a lot more careful about what we spend money on (I have a post in the works about how we've handled the whole unemployment thing). Despite my compulsion to sign Sunshine up for all sorts of worth while classes, she only took two in the fall and may only take one in the winter (I'm still deciding on the second one). I still see the benefit of the classes she's not taking, but we can't do it all, all the time. She'll be able to take them at other time.

Time Management

I still have a ways to go on this, but I do feel like I'm getting better at not being too obsessive with projects. I've done some building, but I've done lots of other projects as well. I've sewed clothing, rearranged furniture, decluttered the house, taken an Irish whistle class, taught Sunshine, kept my Cub Scout pack running somewhat smoothly, taken care of River, been a wife to Mr M, trained for and run races, read books, blogged, the list goes on and on. Most of those things are on the schedule for this coming year as well, so I get to continue working on balancing my time between all my obligations.

I think I still spend too much time on the computer, and I'm working on putting it away for periods during the day. I perpetually feel like I don't have enough time to get things done, but if I just put my computer away I'd have more time available.

I have some projects I want to finish before the baby's born (painting the pieces I built before River was born, framing out and adding doors to the shelves I added at the foot of the basement stairs, and finishing the fireplace), but those will have to wait until we have some money available in the budget.

Have you made goals for the year? How did you do with last year's goals?

Monday, January 5, 2015

Out with the Old, In with the New

Kind of.

We sold our 2008 Chevy Avalanche

and purchased a new-to-us 2007 Toyota Camry Hybrid.

I mentioned at the beginning of last year that we were planning on selling the truck and trailer during 2014. We would then buy a more economical car and start saving for an RV.

We finally sold the trailer at the end of August, but we didn't get the truck sold until the end of December. That took a lot longer than we wanted, but the timing ended up being pretty good. Selling the truck in 2014 means we won't have to pay property taxes on it in 2015 (if you sell a vehicle during the year, you still have to pay the property taxes on it for the entire calendar year). And since we waited a week and didn't purchase the new car until 2015, we shouldn't have to pay property taxes on it until 2016 (weird, but that's how our state does things).

Deciding on a Make and Model
We wanted a car that got great mileage (especially after dealing with the truck's horrible mileage), so we were looking at the Passat TDI, which is a diesel car, but they haven't been in production very long and even used ones were out of our budget. I was leaning towards a Prius, but Mr M wouldn't fit comfortably in one, so that was out. A Civic Hybrid would have been a tight fit also.

Mr M has driven a lot of different cars when he travels for business, so he has a long list of cars that were unacceptable, whether because he didn't fit in them or because they drove rough or whatever other reason he didn't like them. However, he'd driven a Camry recently and really liked it, so when we did some research and found out that the Camry Hybrid gets good mileage and has a good track record (Consumer Reports recommends it as a good used vehicle to buy), we decided to focus our search on them. Since it's wider than a Prius or Civic we should also be able to {tightly} squeeze in two car seats and a booster if we ever have to.

The unfortunate thing is that hybrid owners tend to love their cars and put lots of mileage on them before trading/selling them. So we didn't have a lot of choices, especially once we decided we wanted a car with less than 80,000 miles, leather seats, was 2008 or newer, was a darker color (there were a lot more white and light silver cars with fabric seats available) and under a certain price point.

We wanted a low mileage vehicle since we plan on having this car for a long time. We weren't initially looking for leather seats, but ultimately decided we wanted them. The truck and the CR-V both have them and they're much easier to keep clean than the cloth seats of our earlier vehicles, especially with messy kiddos. We wanted a vehicle that was as new as possible and we like darker paint jobs- they just look nicer than the lighter colors.

Negotiating Before Test Driving
I had recently read article about negotiating with dealers when buying a car and bookmarked it since I knew we'd be buying soon. This proved very helpful and I used a lot of the ideas to get things going. As I mentioned, there weren't a lot of options available that met our criteria, so we had a very wide search radius. 200 miles wide. Not normally what we'd do, but it gave us more choices to look into.

After multiple searches of databases and dealer websites, I ended up emailing 16 dealerships in 6 states. All but one responded, and I was able to get final prices on most of the vehicles. A couple of the dealerships wouldn't negotiate online, but most were happy to drop the price a little and tell me how much it would be once the taxes and fees were added on. With that information in hand, we were able to start narrowing things down. We'd included cloth seats in the initial search, but we eliminated those, which left us with 6 cars. Of those, one had been sold the day we inquired about it and two were colors we didn't like (champagne and dark red). Color may seem trivial, but when you're planning on keeping a car for a long time, you want to make sure you like as much about the car as possible. Plus there was no way we could test drive all 5 available cars and that helped us eliminate some of them.

Test Driving Our Potential New Car
The three cars left were at three dealerships in three states. After consulting google maps we realized that they lined up so we could make a giant circle. As long as we didn't have to backtrack, we could do it all in one {long} day.

The cars all mostly fit our criteria (one was a little older and one had a few more miles), but we felt we could probably work around those issues. After making these decisions, we emailed the dealerships again and arranged times to test drive each car.

They all had similar features, specifically leather seats and dark exterior colors. The first car had a nav package and sunroof, the second had neither, and the third had sunroof and upgraded radio, but no nav. It also had an after-market backup camera.

Test driving the cars was very educational. The first one was the newest (2009), had the highest mileage, and was priced the highest. It also ran very rough, didn't shift smoothly, and was on the noisy side. This became very obvious when we test drove the second car and noticed the huge differences in how they drove. The first car also had several scratches and dents that hadn't been taken care of (despite being on the lot for almost a month- it was really strange). The dealership was willing to take care of them without charging us, but we would have had to bring the car back. With a four hour round trip, that was a deal breaker.

The second car was a 2008 and was right between the first and third in mileage and price. It drove nice, but the lack of extra bells and whistles made us hesitate to stop our search there. So we drove on to the last dealership, where we tested the third contender. It was the oldest (2007), but also had the lowest mileage (almost 20,000 less than the first car) and lowest price. It drove nice and had a couple extras the second car didn't have.

In the end, we decided the lower mileage and price justified going with a slightly older vehicle than we'd originally intended. We had hoped that would be the case and had purposely planned our route so we'd hit the 2007 car last. We filled out some paperwork, they filled up the gas tank, and an hour later we were on our way home, the proud new owners of a Toyota Camry Hybrid.

Our Dealership Experience
The first two salesman let us test drive the cars by ourselves. This was nice since it would have been a squeeze with River's car seat and Sunshine's booster in the back seat, and it gave us the chance to discuss what we liked and didn't like without an audience. The third salesman opted to squeeze in the back seat and go with us. This actually turned out to be helpful since he's owned several hybrids and is actually knowledgeable about them, unlike the other two salesmen. As we drove around he told us about how the engines and brakes work, since they're a bit different than in regular gasoline cars.

While we were filling out paperwork, we mentioned that I had been the one writing the emails to the dealerships and signing Mr M's name. I had done that to try to avoid the bias that sometimes surfaces around cars and dealerships and women. Our salesman shared this interesting tidbit that he's seen in his years as a salesman: If one woman is on the lot, she knows what she wants and will buy it. If one man is on the lot, he'll need to go home and discuss it with his wife. If two men are on the lot, they're just there to kick the tires and won't actually buy anything. If a husband and wife are on the lot, they will most likely be buying something. Definitely the case with us!

Final Thoughts
Online negotiation is totally the way to go. We had final prices on two of the three cars (the first was reluctant to give a number before actually meeting with us) before we even left home. And the second car's price might have been lowered a bit more if we'd decided to buy it right then.

Don't start negotiating until you know when you can go look at cars. We knew we'd have time on Friday, so I started emailing dealerships on Monday. Thursday was a holiday, otherwise I could have even waited till Tuesday to start emailing. Most dealerships responded pretty promptly and were good about replying to my questions. Telling them upfront that we wanted to buy in the next few days helped them know we were serious, and I made sure to mention that we were looking at other similar vehicles as well.

I would still use both of our names when emailing dealerships (I modeled our initial email after the one in the article I linked to above), and Mr M's name when following up. You never know if you'll get a progressive salesman or one stuck in the stone ages.

I should have set up an email account just for interacting with dealerships. I used my everyday email account and now I'm getting all sorts of auto sales announcements from various dealerships. I'm sure it'll be awhile before I'm actually unsubscribed from all of them. They have a habit of popping back up at random times.

We used some of the proceeds from the sale of the truck to pay for the car, so we didn't worry about financing it. If you do need to finance a new vehicle, make sure you get that arranged ahead of time so you can get the best rate possible.

Ask any questions you have upfront to save yourself a wasted trip. Does the car smell of smoke? (One car Mr M had looked at while selling the truck smelled of covered-up cigarette smoke. Not something we want, at all.) Is the CarFax clean? Are there any additional fees? Do they offer discounts for being part of this group or that? One question we'll ask next time we buy a vehicle (we're thinking of selling the CR-V and moving up to the larger Toyota Highlander Hybrid): how much does the salesman know about hybrids? Having a knowledgeable salesman does make a difference.

Overall, this was a pretty painless experience. The worst part was how long everything took as we drove from dealership to dealership. Because of the pre-negotiations we were able to keep our time at each dealership to a minimum but we still spent an hour or two at each between the test drive and the obligatory "what can we do to make you end your search here". Despite being a really long day (13.5 hours), the kiddos were troopers and didn't fuss too much during the whole experience.  And now we have a fuel-efficient car that won't kill the gas budget :)

Isn't it a pretty car?

Sunday, January 4, 2015

Sunday Funny


We have a drawer in our kitchen that is just River's height. We use it to store plastic containers and lids, but River has recently decided that drawer is his spot to put things. We've found books, cups, measuring cups, toys, the list goes on and on, all stuffed in "his" drawer.

only cups and a measuring cup in there right now

The other day we couldn't find Mr M's phone, so I called it, hoping we'd be able to hear it ring. It was very easy to hear, since River had stashed it in his drawer. Now we know where to look for our phones if we can't find them....

Friday, January 2, 2015

New Years Day 5k Recap

Me and my friend B, huddled in the car for warmth while we waited for the race to start

I didn't run this race last year, but two years ago I did and I finished in under 30 minutes. I was hoping for a time close to that this year, but I didn't quite manage it.

It was colder (mid-to-high-30's) and windier than I expected, but the wind turned out to not be an issue while we were running. Mostly it just made us cold while we waited for the race to start and when we were milling around after finishing.

My problem was that I had it in my mind that this was a fast race and therefor I could run a little faster than normal and still be ok. That wasn't the case though. Maybe if I wasn't pregnant I could have hung in there, but I am, and I couldn't. I started out too fast and paid for it during the last mile when I had to stop and walk a couple times because I was tired and my lungs needed a break. Reduced lung capacity because I'm pregnant combined with the cold air made it harder to breathe than I'm used to. On the other hand, my stomach and intestines behaved, so that's definitely a win.

I finished the race in 33:25, which is slower than the 29:36 I finished in 2 years ago, but is the same time that I finished my December 5k. This race measured .13 miles longer though (the December 5k was a little short), which gave me a 10:42 average pace. Even though I didn't run a steady pace (mile 1: 9:56 pace, mile 2: 10:22 pace, mile 3: 11:54 pace), I still managed to finish in the same time as my last race, so that's consistent at least. And 33:25 is my current 5k PR, so I really can't complain too much.

I'm anticipating my times slowing down from here on out. I'm now 12 weeks pregnant and the baby is just going to get bigger :) My races will be more about distance and staying mobile than about time. Staying active while pregnant with River made such a difference in the quality of the pregnancy and I'm determined to continue that with this pregnancy.

My next race is an 8 miler at the end of February (I'm skipping the Mud Run this year and this was the only other race I could find) when I'm 20 weeks pregnant. This will be good training for the half marathon at the beginning of April when I'm 25 weeks pregnant. I also have a 5k in March planned when I'm 23 weeks. My next post will talk more about the races I have planned this year, so I'll just end by saying that I do plan on running and walking as long as I possibly can, and starting out the new year with a good 5k run is a good way to start.

Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Musical Quilts

Lately I've been playing musical quilts with the beds in our house. We started out with this blue and brown comforter on our bed, but I sold it at our yard sale this summer so I could change up the color scheme in our room.

Then I built our new bed and bought a quilt with embroidered flowers. I really liked the quilt, but it just didn't go with the light blue gray walls.

 So I bought a darker quilt, and it works much better with the walls.

Once I got the master bedroom settled, it was time to work on the other beds. Our old log bed frame got moved to the basement guest room, and it needed bedding. Since the quilt with embroidered flowers didn't work in our room, I tried it in the basement guest room.  Apparently I really like this color, since the quilt and wall colors are almost exactly the same. It's a nice color, but it was a bit much, especially in a room that gets very little natural light.

So I brought the striped quilt down from the former guest room (now River's room) and tried it on the log bed. It looks much better. The turquoise stripes go well with the walls, and all the other colors brighten things up.

So now we're back upstairs in River's room. It used to look like this before River moved in.

Since the striped quilt looked better downstairs, I brought the flower-embroidered quilt back upstairs and tried it in River's room. It's not quite the same color as the painted walls above it, but because they're not right next to each other, it still works.

Sunshine may end up in this room when the baby is born- it depends on everyone's sleep habits at that point. She'd prefer a pink room and bedding, but I think the flowers on the quilt will win her over. That and getting to sleep in a big bed- this one's a full size, she currently sleeps in a twin.

Am I the only who switches quilts from bed to bed to bed?

Tuesday, December 30, 2014

Running is Fun, Part 2

This is a follow-up to yesterday's running recap.

I went for another run outside on Saturday. I wasn't sure how it would go since I spent Thursday and Friday feeling like crap, dealing with the fallout from eating something Wednesday night that really didn't agree with me. Not gluten, but the reaction was almost as bad. I think it was some rice flour- I've been reacting worse and worse every time I eat it, but it hasn't been this bad before. And whole rice doesn't seem to be as problematic as rice flour. A day and a half of stomach and intestinal issues was definitely not fun, and meant that I ate and drank very little. So I was tired (I'm perpetually tired, but felt even more so), dehydrated, and under-fueled going into this run, but I thought it went very well despite that.

Like last Saturday, I ran 4.1 miles, but this time I managed to run the first 3.1 miles without stopping. Yay me! After finishing the first 3.1 miles, I walked for .2 miles then tried to run again, but realized I had no energy left, so I ended up walking all of the last mile. Not what I had intended, but all that I could manage given everything going on with my body.

I was able to run 3.1 miles in 35:05, which is about the time that I finished several of my faster races this year. Interestingly, I didn't feel like what I was running too fast or too hard. Though in all reality, I was running faster in those races since I stopped and walked multiple times during the races and still managed to finish in the same time that I ran on Saturday.

I did have to talk myself into continuing running a couple times because I was tired, but overall the run felt good and I'm cautiously optimistic about the New Year's Day 5k on Thursday.

Monday, December 29, 2014

Running is Fun, Part 1

I wrote a post I was going to post today, but needed to link it to this one. When I went looking for this post, I couldn't find it. Apparently I never actually hit publish, despite the fact that I thought I had. So this is a week late, and I'll have another running post tomorrow.

Saturday morning we didn't have anything planned, so I braved the chilly temps and went for a run outside. I've been taking the easy way out and hitting the treadmill most days, but I wanted a good, long run, which I knew wouldn't happen on the treadmill.

I'm lucky if I can manage two 10 minute stints of running in a 45 minute workout when I'm on the treadmill. I'm not sure why, but it just feels so much harder physically, and it's a lot easier to lose motivation when you're not actually going anywhere. We don't have the best treadmill, so that could be part of the issue, but maybe it's just all in my head :)

I've been sticking to 5k races and workouts since the half marathon in September, but I have an 8 mile race at the end of February (replacing the mud run I've done the last couple years because pregnant bellies and obstacle courses do not get along very well) and a half marathon the first weekend in April, so I need to start increasing my mileage. I generally go into longer races undertrained, but I need to be a bit more careful with my upcoming races since I'll be about 25 weeks along for the half marathon. Yes, I was pregnant when I last ran the Disney half, but I was only 3 weeks pregnant. It's vastly different to be approaching the end of the second trimester versus being barely pregnant.

Saturday I decided to aim for a 4 mile run and see what happened. I wasn't going for speed, just distance and endurance. Interestingly enough, my endurance has improved. Despite my struggles to run on the treadmill, once I was outside, it almost felt effortless. I was a little short of breath in the first half mile or so (I remember this happening when I was in the first trimester with River, so it wasn't unexpected), but once I warmed up it wasn't a problem. I ran 1.5 miles, walked for .1 mile, then ran the next 1.5 miles. I haven't run a 5k with only one walk break in a really, really long time. My legs and lungs actually felt pretty good, I only had to stop and walk because I felt like I needed to throw up (pregnancy hormones strike again). After running the second 1.5 miles, I walked another .1 mile, then ran .55 miles, walked .1 mile, and ran .3 miles, finishing with 4.15 miles total.

Mile 3.25-3.75 had two fairly significant hills, which is why I added in another walk break so close to the finish. The course I ran had several long hills, but they were fairly gentle and didn't feel strenuous, except those last two hills. I ended up staying out of the neighborhoods and running the main roads and it actually wasn't too bad. I've avoided the main roads in the past because they're narrow and cars tend to speed a bit and aren't always considerate towards runners and bikers. Our roads are so narrow that they don't have painted right-side lines and the shoulders are usually fairly non-existent as well. So I did have to stay vigilant so I could hop off the pavement into the grass/barrow pit when cars were coming from both directions at the same time. Most of the time if just one car was coming toward me they swung wide and I could stay on the pavement, which was nice.

I wasn't looking at my times while I was out running, but once I got home I saw that I had run 4.15 miles in 48:45, which is an 11:45 pace. That's only a little slower than what I've been running during races, and I kept it up for 4 miles instead of just the usual 3. So Saturday's run was definitely encouraging.

Monday, December 22, 2014

Random Pregnancy Thoughts

I've experienced nausea and aversion to food smells with all three kiddos (but  not with the miscarriages, interestingly enough). They were very bad with River, but I don't remember them being as bad with Sunshine. This time around they haven't been as bad as with River either, which has me wondering if this one is a girl. I'm not holding my breath on that though, because I was convinced that Sunshine was going to be a boy and I thought River was going to be a girl, so my track record on this isn't very good. Based strictly on levels of nausea, though, this one seems to be more like what I experienced with Sunshine than with River.

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I ate a lot of chocolate while pregnant with River- it was about all I could stomach during the first trimester. Mini Snickers and mini Butterfingers were in constant rotation. This time chocolate tastes disgusting. Seriously. It's very weird since I've always liked chocolate and I'm picky about the kinds I eat. But even the ones I've enjoyed in the past taste like nasty, cheap chocolate. On the other hand, sugary candy like Starbursts and Dots actually taste ok. This is another reason I'm leaning toward this baby being a girl.

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Having Mr M around for the first trimester has been WONDERFUL. It was rough having him gone a good portion of the time when I was pregnant with River, but it would have been worse this time around. Sunshine can fend for herself pretty well, but River can't, and I don't know that he'd appreciate all of his sister's efforts to feed him :) I'm very blessed to have married a man who knows how to cook and doesn't mind taking up the slack when just thinking about food makes me nauseous.

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pregnancy bladder + pre-race nervous bladder = having to pee the whole race even though I went twice just before the start.

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My usual pregnancy tip-offs of drastically increased hair loss and chest tenderness were a bit masked this time around. I switched up my hair routine not long before getting pregnant and while my hair likes it, it does encourage tangles that only get smoothed out in the shower, which also releases the hairs that would normally have fallen to the ground throughout the day. So every time I wash my hair,  there's lots of hair to clean out of the drain. I was chalking it up to the changed routine, but at least part of it is pregnancy-related.

River is still nursing first thing in the morning and this has gone a long way to minimizing the chest tenderness I usually get (so nice!). I've only experienced minimal tenderness.

I was late, but I was chalking it up to stress (there's a lot of stress in our lives right now). Then I thought "I better make sure...." :)

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A late night trip to the bathroom last night reminded me of a theory I came up with while pregnant with River.

Having to get up in the middle of the night to pee prepares us to get up in the middle of the night to feed the baby.

I think it's kind of rude, though, since we really need to be getting as much rest as possible in the weeks and months leading up to when the baby is born.

Sunday, December 21, 2014

Sunday Funny

A couple days ago my phone told me it couldn't complete a backup because there wasn't enough space. I looked through my apps and files and finally decided the culprit must be my photo stream. I synced it to my computer, then deleted all the items in my photo stream from my phone. Success! Plenty of space to complete a backup.

The next step was to look through the newest photos from my phone. The first thing I noticed was that most of them weren't photos, but videos. And one of those photos was 30 minutes long. I didn't remember making a 30 minute video, so I clicked on it to see what it was. 30 seconds in, I called Mr M over and we just busted up laughing.

River likes my phone, but he likes it when the screen is colored, or can change if he touches it. If I hand it to him and the screen is dark, he'll hand it right back and complain. I've learned the hard way not to unlock the phone for him (he deleted half my email inbox one time), and pressing the circular button at the bottom doesn't keep the screen active for long. So I've started turning the camera on for him, which is how I ended up with a 30 minute video on my phone.

The first few minutes made me a bit seasick as he walked around the house (the drunken sailor stagger makes for a very shaky video), punctuating his explorations with the random squawks and grunts that are how he currently communicates. We got some sideways shots of his crib and some close-ups of the carpet in his room when he dropped the camera on the rug and then scrabbled around to pick it up again.

Eventually River closed himself in our closet and when I retrieved him the phone got left on the floor. The video was still running (which I didn't realize) so the picture went dark but we could still hear what was happening in our room. Eventually I went searching for my phone and I turned off the video when I found it.

I found several other videos, but they are all much shorter and not quite as amusing. I'm sure there will be more videos :) I wonder if we have a budding movie maker on our hands?

Friday, December 19, 2014

Did you know you can print envelopes with your Silhouette?


I found a post here that described how to do it and I realized I could use the tutorial to spiff up our Christmas card envelopes. I wouldn't say it's quicker than handwriting all the addresses, but it does look nicer :)

I used my sketch pens- silver sparkly for the snowflakes, black sparkly for the names and addresses. Then those ran out and I used blue for the snowflakes and black for the writing. I think I went through 4 or 5 pens all together, so not super-cheap in that respect. I had a package of sketch pens that I received for Christmas last year, so I had fun playing around with them.

The only problem I had was remembering to switch the pens in between the letters and the snowflakes. A couple people may be getting an all-silver printed envelope...

I really like how they turned out- especially the snowflakes on the envelopes. If I do this again next year, I'll leave more time for this project. It took longer than I had planned and I ended up rushing to make it to the post office before it closed today. Oops. They should still arrive before Christmas, though, so it's a win in my book :)